{"id":1344,"date":"2014-09-05T13:17:00","date_gmt":"2014-09-05T13:17:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.threedayrules.com\/?p=1344"},"modified":"2026-02-17T22:53:11","modified_gmt":"2026-02-17T22:53:11","slug":"what-do-women-really-want","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.threedayrules.com\/what-do-women-really-want\/","title":{"rendered":"What Do Women Really Want?"},"content":{"rendered":"\n

Lately, I\u2019ve been working with our Matchmakers<\/a> to prepare content for a series of intimate, tell-all events that Three Day Rule is hosting all across the country, giving single men tips on how to step up their dating game. The ultimate goal? Helping men like you end up with the girl you\u2019ve always wanted.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

As part of this work, I\u2019ve been delving into the results of a survey I put together polling thousands of singles in Chicago, New York, San Francisco, and Los Angeles to get a pulse on the most pressing questions that single men have about women and dating.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Interestingly, 3 clear themes\/questions have emerged from the survey data that I thought I\u2019d share:<\/p>\n\n\n\n

1. How do I win her over when I first meet her?<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

Whether it\u2019s getting her to respond to you when you first approach her at a bar, or keeping her engaged during the first date, men still want to know the best ways to initially win her over\u2026because let\u2019s be real, first impressions matter.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

When chatting about this topic with our Matchmakers<\/a>, I started to realize that the work a guy has to do to get her interested is really no different than the work I do every day as a Matchmaker. It all comes down to one thing: your unique selling proposition (USP)<\/strong>. What is the one thing about you that you\u2019d like her to know about at the onset?<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Figure out what that is and try to communicate that to her\u2026in a subtle way. If you are struggling to come up with your USP,<\/strong> ask yourself: Why do your friends and family love you? What are you most passionate about? What drives you?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

This will help you determine your USP<\/strong>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

3 Quick Tips to Increase Your Chances of Success With Her:<\/strong>
1. Be funny.<\/strong> What woman doesn\u2019t love a man that makes her laugh? We\u2019re much more forgiving of looks than men are and can warm up to almost any guy that has a great sense of humor. Relax, be light-hearted, and crack a funny joke. Note: It\u2019s best to keep the sarcasm at a minimum in the beginning because people have different senses of humor and you don\u2019t want to risk offending her initially.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

2. Ask her questions and actively listen.<\/strong> Respond with engaging follow-up questions or commentary. This is key and proves that you are actually listening to her.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

3. Initiate.<\/strong> if you have been exchanging glances with a woman all night, there\u2019s a great chance that she\u2019s interested in you, but shy. Make the first move and go over there to say hello. You have nothing to lose.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

2. How do I tell if a woman is into me?<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

I found this one to be most fascinating. It seems like the most basic of questions, yet this still seems to be confounding single men everywhere. I could dedicate a whole blog post on this one, but for the sake of time, I\u2019ll share a few quick tips from our Matchmakers<\/a>:<\/p>\n\n\n\n