Becky Trifero

Head of Matchmaker Operations

With years of experience as a dedicated matchmaker at Three Day Rule, Becky has built her career around helping people form authentic, lasting connections. Her natural ability to listen deeply and her passion for creating meaningful relationships quickly established her as a trusted partner to all.

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After serving as Head of Client Experience, Becky expanded her impact beyond one-on-one matchmaking. In this role, she honed her expertise in understanding client needs at scale, ensuring that every individual felt seen, supported, and guided with compassion throughout their journey. Her time in this position gave her a unique perspective into both the personal and operational sides of matchmaking

Now as Head of Matchmaker Operations, Becky oversees the team of matchmakers with a balance of detail-oriented leadership and heartfelt insight. She draws on her matchmaking background, client-focused approach, and operational expertise to streamline processes, elevate client experiences, and empower her team to thrive. Her goal - creating an environment where authenticity and connection flourish.

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Allie. 39, Married

Trust your Matchmaker. These are the experts, they are born to do this... I did and I ended up meeting the love of my life.

Allie. 39, Married

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The most valuable part of this process has been my personal Matchmaker, Becky, who has truly become a guide, wing-woman, friend and soul-sister. She is accessible, honest, and truly cares about me and what I desire.

Thankfully, there is a place like Three Day Rule with professionals to save you from dating hell and help bring love into your life...My wife and I feel lucky to have found each other through Three Day Rule.

I am beyond impressed with the professionalism and quality of Three Day Rule. Not only did the man I meet through Three Day Rule impress me with the quality of the personnel that Three Day Rule interacts with, but Three Day Rule helped me to find my soulmate.

I liked Three Day Rule because it went a step beyond what you can get with online matching engines. My dates with Three Day Rule were definitely of better quality and I met my wife. It worked for me.

I am so grateful that I acted upon the advice of a friend and took a leap of faith. With the help of my Matchmaker, dating has finally become personal and fun again for me!

Three Day Rule was incredible to work with. They were proactive, patient, and had my best interests in mind at all times. Best of all, they set me up with an amazing woman whom I wouldn’t have found anywhere else. I am really excited about our future together!

I literally met my match…The connection we have is unlike anything either of us has experienced before, and I’m just so grateful to the team at Three Day Rule for introducing us.

Every match I met through Three Day Rule was a great person who I got along with, and every date was enjoyable. It was a much different experience than the countless messaging and swiping of online apps.

Three Day Rule is the real deal and worth the expense.

I have no doubt that I owe the relationship to Three Day Rule. He was and is exactly the kind of man I told her I was looking for, but I never would have known...Based on my experience, I've referred several people to Three Day Rule.

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